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10 Reasons Why I am Thankful as a Foster Parent

10/28/2016

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​It seems that as I grow older, I become more and more appreciative and more grateful for all the blessings in my life. I imagine that is simply a progression of age, and simply shows that I am getting older.   Yet, it is during this month of Thanksgiving in our home where I feel particularly grateful for my life as a foster parent the past 14 years.

It has long been a tradition in our home on Thanksgiving Day, as we sit down at the table, for each of us to state what we have been thankful for each year.  From the youngest to the oldest, it is always interesting to hear what others might say. Sometimes, it can be sad, while other times, it can be amusing. Most often, it is inspiring.  As you can imagine, our house if quite full with children, and with visitors, from across the globe, when my Australian born wife’s side of the family comes for a visit.
With that in mind, I wanted to share with you why I am grateful, in no particular order mind you, for being a foster parent.

1)  I am thankful for the love in my home.   When a child is placed into my home, they become family the very first day.  To be sure, each placement is different, and there are those placements that are more difficult than others.  Yet, my home is one that has been filled with more love than I could ever have imagined.  And now, I have a "grandchild"originating from foster care, as I am now a grandfather to a child who used to live with us.  How blessed am I!

2) The laughter is often contagious.  Watching a child smile or even laugh for the first time after a life of abuse and neglect is heartwarming.  I have had the privilege of watching a child who had suffered unimaginable abuse learn how to play and learn how to laugh while playing with the other children in my home.  That laughter is often healing for all involved.

3)  A community rallies together.  Without a doubt, I could never be a foster parent without the support of others.  As I have written countless times, not everyone can be a foster parent. Yet, everyone can help in some way.  It has been a joy to watch the small community I live in come together to help our children in foster care; not only in my own home, but in the residential group home for boys in foster care I have founded, as well.

4) Helping birth parents heal.  As a foster parent, I sometimes need to remember that my children from foster child’s biological parents are people in need, and they deserve my kindness and sympathy, not my anger. By working with them, and by showing them kindness and compassion, I can not only help them, I can show their children an important lesson in love and humanity, and help them in their own walk towards healing.

5) There is never a dull day.  I often joke with my fellow foster parents that I go to work to rest, as the needs and responsibilities of so many children in need can, at times, be a little exhausting. Yet, there has never been a dull moment or a boring day in my home.  Quite the opposite, as each day is an adventure and holds new surprises.  Some days, I just have to look at the mayhem around me and smile.

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6) A lesson in service.  14 years of foster parenting.  My oldest child is 19 years of age. You can quickly see that being a foster family is the norm for my own children.  I am grateful that I have had the opportunity to teach my own children that we are here to help others, to serve others, and to put others before ourselves.

7) Forever Family.  Three of the children that were placed into my home from foster care have become forever family members of ours through the gift of adoption.  Without a doubt, adoption has made my family stronger.

8) Learning never stops. I love to learn new things, as I am a curious person, in general.  As a foster parent, I find that I am constantly learning something new, on a daily basis.  To be sure, this constant learning process continues to grow me as a parent, and as a person.

9) My own heart is full.  Through the tears of grief and sorrow and the joys and laughter, I have found that my own heart is rather like the Grinch’s.  Remember in the classic 1966 Christmas cartoon How the Grinch Stole Christmas, when his heart grew so large it burst out of the x-ray device?  That is how my own heart is.  I have experienced so many diverse and intense emotions through the years that my heart is flowing over with love for all.

10) The rewards are unending.  Yes, foster parenting has been the most difficult “job” I have ever done, and the hardest thing I do. Yet, it is by far the most rewarding thing I have ever done, as well. Without a doubt, I am a far better person for each experience, and a far richer person for each child that has come to be a part of my life.


-Dr.John

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11/5/2016 10:18:51 am

I love #4... that you recognize that is huge. I doubt all Foster parents recognize the necessity of such.

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